[Nell]

I don't have any posh people in my tree. They're all labourers or domestic servants. But the one who is most pesky is William Williams who has 5 different birthplaces and 3 different birth years on the censuses and who refuses to die!

Mary is the worst name to research, especially an illegitimate rellie called Mary Gray. If she'd used her middle (father's) name of Timbers she'd be a lot easier to trace.