Originally Posted by Kit

I was wondering if we could tell ancestry they are wrong.

I think the link is through the woman I think is my relative, not the woman ancestry is suggesting is my relative. The problem is while I can disprove the other woman I can't work out where my relative came from. She arrived on earth in time to marry, had 3 children and then returned to wherever she came from. I don't know why but they are not suggesting a link for her husband. Inconveniently there are 3 men of the same name, who marry within a few years of each other, to a woman with the same first name and 2 of the men, at least, have the same occupation.