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Old 11-04-20, 16:05
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Brilliant, thank-you all again. Lost of my family were born in the Wrexham area and therefore very welsh so I will see what FMP can also offer.

Elizabeth mentioned that Sarah Bellis was born in 1842 although her parents didn't get married until 1846. I am assuming that back then this was almost unheard of, and certainly frowned upon? I have ordered the marriage certificate for Absalom and Martha.

I wonder what female prisons were like back then.

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Illegitimacy was very common, in fact, Nick, but carried a stigma with it. The shame was all the mother's, unfortunately.

If that was your Martha, perhaps she was in straitened circumstances being a single mother.
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In my research I've found that yes, there was a lot of scandal about illegitimacy, but mainly later in the 19th century and in the towns. In small villages it was quite common for people to have a baby before marriage or to produce one less than 9 months after the wedding. Much would depend on whether the woman in question was supported by the father or reliant on parish relief.

I've got one relative whose occupation is given as "bastard" on one census, when he was with his grandparents. Another relative in a different branch of the family, also with grandparent, was called a "love child". So attitudes varied.

If you factor in the number of pregnancies that would end in miscarriage or stillbirth too the rate of pregnancy in non-married women was probably quite high.

My gt gt grandmother had her first child baptised 3 weeks after her wedding (in a register office in 1852). Her first name was Honor!
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Elizabeth mentioned that Sarah Bellis was born in 1842 although her parents didn't get married until 1846. I am assuming that back then this was almost unheard of, and certainly frowned upon? I have ordered the marriage certificate for Absalom and Martha.
Not as unusual as you might think.
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Old 11-04-20, 16:35
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haha - thanks all. Another eye-opener.

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Old 11-04-20, 17:13
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Richard William Jones baptism
22nd April 1888 Rhosllanerchrugog

https://search.findmypast.co.uk/reco...F879252693%2F1
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Old 11-04-20, 17:30
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Burial of Richard William Jones aged 14

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Mary Ann Jones died young, which explains why the children were with their grandparents on the 1901 Census.

She was buried 12th August 1893 aged 27 at Rhosllanerchrugog.

https://search.findmypast.co.uk/reco...F878199836%2F1


NO! Not your ancestor! See my later posts.
This is why we check, check and check again. The age etc fits but it isn't her. She appears on the 1911 Census with her family

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Old 11-04-20, 18:37
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Thank-you Elizabeth. I think this is where I get a little stuck. Hadn't even thought if a child is with their grandparents it could be because a parent has died.

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Old 11-04-20, 18:52
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Do you know what other children David and Mary Ann Jones had?

I have Richard William, Elizabeth and David so far.
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Old 11-04-20, 19:03
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David's baptism:


First name(s) David
Last name Jones
Birth year 1891
Birth date ? ? 1891
Baptism year 1891
Baptism date 04 Oct 1891
Place Rhosllanerchrugog
County Denbighshire
Country Wales
Father's first name(s) David
Mother's first name(s) Mary Ann
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Record set Denbighshire Baptisms

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