I put this here for consideration!
I now live in a retirement complex and we have just had our regular newsletter, part of which warns us all of accepting into our lives "strangers who claim to be distant family". This is no doubt prompted by a recent awful murder.
Whilst Phoenix's colleague has the best of genuine intentions, here is one reason why a couple well into their 90s may view the approach with great suspicion, or those who guard them might. I would do as Merry suggests, approach in writing with an sae.
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