I have a friend whose daughter has caused her parents and her outlaws considerable upset by not allowing them contact with their grandchildren.
In fact the outlaws didn't know they had 3 more grandchildren or a great grandchild until fairly recently but have managed to meet their grandchild and great grandchild once I believe. Unfortunately the granddaughter is now back under the influence of her mother and so contact has been lost with everyone once again.
I agree that if she wants contact that she should write to them - it may be that they were the reason why she hasn't had contact for some reason but giving them the choice of meeting her might be what they've been waiting for for decades.
__________________
|