None of the those seems to have the 1841 census.
John Oates was buried at Norwood too, 30 Jan 1864, Lyham Road, Clapham, aged 67
http://search.ancestry.co.uk/cgi-bin...26pgPLz0q3dpid
Not sure which daughter you descend from but Maria Sutton Oates is the main one on those trees.