Oh, thanks Jay, now how have I missed that death? probably because I was expecting her to be in Northumberland or at least Gateshead. I wonder when that went on Durham Records as I often use the site? I have some credits for it so will go get
Oh yes it's the correct one, says widow of Ralph Jobes. They were in Gateshead in 1875 when he died so didn't expect her to be in Sunderland!
Will have to get the death certificate now.