[Merry]

I did look at a few things, but not thoroughly...

Babies called Alice Maud b Gravesend 1871ish - any of those illegitimate or with a widowed mother on the 1871/81 census? There were none that fitted that criteria and I didn't have time to follow the children with (apparently) married parents.

There are no obvious candidates for John Race builder dying 1870-1896.

No Race marriages in Kent that look like they might be connected in some way.

A quick search of the witnesses and visitors to see if any of them might have a connection to the name Race. No, not obviously anyway.

I was supposed to stop at 8am, so will stop now!