Re. Mary Stilwell
Details of each of his or her marriages -
24 Oct 1763 Bramshott, Hants to Roger Kingshott
I looked for baptisms at Bramshott.
Mary Stillaway 26 December 1719 father John (Jno). This is too early.
The Stilwell researchers have a marriage to William West.
The next one I have is 1749.
I have a Mary Stilwell born to my ancestor Abraham Stilwell of Linchmere and baptised at Haslemere in 1725 but she was buried in 1728.
Jill, you might have to look at other parishes.
Did you ever contact Martin Stilwell?
http://stilwellhistory.uk/
He has a very comprehensive database.