No sign of an Ayling- Shapman marriage in Sussex either. Out of curiosity I checked for baptisms, and there were none for Shapman in Hampshire at that time, but Thomas and Sarah Chapman of Hartley Mauditt (about 6 miles from Bentley) had Sarah (3 May 1715), Thomas (22 Jan 1716) and John (19 Dec 1718). No sign of Mary. Checked for Chapman-Ayling marriages, but again there were none in either county.
Not much help I'm afraid
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