I found a second cousin on a shipping list from India, then I found her sister the same way but she came a few years after her sister. I made contact with the eldest 1st and in the 1st letter she wrote to me she said she thought she was the only family left in this world as her only sister had died. When I contacted the younger sister she was quite hard and said she never spoke to her sister who lived in India. I never told them " they were in their 90s", they were both here in England and lived a very short distance from each other. Am glad I kept my mouth shut as the younger one died soon after contact. Sometimes I think I should have told them about each other but other times I think would this info contributed to the death.
It is hard knowing what to do sometimes.
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Jacky
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