Oh that is such great information, Kite, thank you so much.
I really apologize for the confusion. I shouldn't burn the midnight oil and I might not make these mistakes (then again, I probably still would
). Anyway, it was her first husband's thread I was looking at:
http://www.genealogistsforum.co.uk/f...ad.php?t=10491
I haven't taken all this in yet. Coffee first!