[Merry]

Originally Posted by Merry

I see Joseph doesn't have any wives in tow on the US 1860 census (just him and his mum!).

Having just read the notice placed by wife Mary, I'd say she means she is wife 1 and Rebecca is wife 2.

https://www.newspapers.com/clip/1337...seph-bodycote/

I have changed my mind now that I've seen Joseph didn't marry Rebecca until 1865 (admittedly, only a transcription!). So when Mary placed the newspaper notice she must (presumably) have found out about Harriet in England. Unless, of course, there is yet another marriage we are not aware of!