Oh God, it gets more complicated.
There's this marriage:
https://search.findmypast.co.uk/reco...2F00028251%2F2
William Polling to Rebecca Miller, widow 13 June 1814.
I have got to be on the right track somehow because one of the witnesses is Charlotte Still. Charlotte was born Poling, married John Maline in 1805 and then John Still in 1808.